D a t i n g A d v i c e
When starting a relationship with someone online that you have never met before, it is important to be smart,
cautious, and to use your common sense. Treat this "online" relationship like you would any other new
relationship. Let the person earn your trust before you provide them with any personal information such as
your full name, email, phone number, or address. Here are some useful tips that will help you to be safe while
getting to know a potential mate.
Meeting someone online. When you take an interest in a member, begin communicating with them solely
through a messaging service available through any dating service. Pay attention to the person's
behaviour and the way they describe themselves. Look out for any inconsistencies in the information they
provide. This is a sign that the person is not being honest with you. Trust your intuition and discontinue
further contact if you do not trust the person or if they make you feel uncomfortable. If a blocking function
is available, block them indefinitely so they cannot send you anymore messages.
Find out information. Ask many questions to get a better idea of what the person is really like.
Find out where they grew up, their line of work, what they do for fun and how they are involved in the community.
Remember that some people may paint a different picture of themselves in order to win you over, or they may
misrepresent their age, looks etc. Try to keep a record of the correspondences that you have had with them
so you can refer back to information as needed and check for inconsistencies. Check the inbox and sentbox
of the message section to see all correspondence with the user.
The key to success. Honesty is the key to developing a good and healthy relationship. It is important
that you are direct and honest about who you are and what you are looking for in a relationship. This includes
creating accurate profiles about yourself. Try to include photos and essays in your profile as they convey more
information about you and build trust amongst viewers looking at your profile.
Talking on the phone is a great way to get to know someone better. A call can reveal much about
an individual's personality and the way they communicate. However, refrain from giving your phone number to
somebody you do not know that well. Wait until you feel comfortable and trust has been built into your
relationship before you begin giving out your personal information.
Meeting. Spend time getting to know the person so you can find out as best you can about the
person before meeting them. Don't be pressured into meeting someone, only meet them if you feel completely
comfortable. Always follow your intuition and if the person makes you uncomfortable, stop corresponding with
them. You can always find other suitable matches through your dating service.
When you decide to meet. When you meet, it's a great opportunity to get to know the person even better
but you must look out for your safety at all times. Try to follow these guidelines:
- Inform a friend of where you are going, what time, whom you are going with and when you expect to return.
- Set the meeting in a public place where you are familiar and comfortable.
- Always take your own car or find your own means of transportation. This way you are able to leave at any time
if you do not feel comfortable.
- Pay attention to all the information the person has told you about and don't be afraid to ask them questions.
GoodLuck in all your Dating efforts!!
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